• Franconian_Nomad@feddit.de
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    3 months ago

    Night owls exist, I know because I’m one.

    But this guy is full of shit. Friends rarely want to hang out at 10 am. Afternoon? Sure. Evening? Bet on it. But 10 am? Not so often. And if they do they know it’s early for you because they’re your friend.

    Classes at 10 am? Goodness me, you poor soul. Every 9 -5 wageslave will shed a tear for you. (Yeah, I know. I’d prefer classes in the afternoon too.)

    Meet your Gf for lunch instead, or go with her on the weekends a bit later.

    And yeah. Fishing is often early in the morning. Make an exception for your friend or don’t go.

    Society sucks demanding from people to be crisp and sharp at 8am. But I have a feeling we have some guy here, who likes to play vidiya games all night long and wants present himself as the victim.

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    3 months ago

    “Night owl” sleep preference is a real thing and isn’t a choice (being largely genetic). Night owls forced to obey a daytime schedule suffer from what researchers call “social jet lag” because it constantly feels like they’re living in the wrong time zone. Here’s a 3-minute AsapSCIENCE video with more details for anyone interested.

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      3 months ago

      Im not going to disagree with you, but i have this nagging suspicion that most people who think they are “night owls” are really just shining a phone light in their face every night and confusing their sleep cycle.

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        I am typing this in Wuhan, listening to birds singing in the middle of the night. Are they owls? No, their sleep patterns have simply adapted to the constant neon lighting all over the place.

        Depression and alcohol can also negatively affect sleep patterns.
        Combine depression with all night TV binge watching or phone soon browsing for a greaaaat combo.

        One can break cycles, though.

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        That may be true, but at least the genes for night owls are present in more people than the genes for early birds.

        So it should be expected that, regardless of phone usage, over half of the population will go to bed and wake up ~2-3h later than expected.

        If your timezone is closely aligned with the sun, that’d be 22:00-06:00 for early birds and 01:00-09:00 for night owls. But if your timezone isn’t, both of these times would shift around.

        For me personally, no matter when I go to bed, whether it’s 22:00 or 03:00, I always wake up precisely 09:30 without any alarm clock. But this also means if I have to wake up earlier, e.g. at 8am, I’ll be very tired and not well rested.

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    3 months ago

    What’s even the point of a virgin GF? Is this some bizarre “look but don’t touch” fetish?

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      3 months ago

      Why is this getting down voted? Do people really think before 10 am is “early”.

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          What are you suggesting should be considered early?

          I used to work nights 11pm to 7 am. Typically I would sleep noon to 8 pm. Regardless of my effed up sleep schedule, I still understood that “early” meant “early in the day”, and that whenever I slept wasn’t really related to what was considered “early” for most people. You’ve stated your waking time, bit not what you consider “early”.

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            For me honestly 10 is early. It’s like I can get up at 10 but not enjoying it. 11 is for me what for most people is probably like 8am. Waking up before that is torture. I think it should be up to everyone individually to decide what’s early for them but I definitely disagree with the original comment that 10 am isn’t early by anyone’s definition.