• Nurse_Robot@lemmy.worldEnglish
    30·
    13 days ago

    Make sure consent was given and that there was a mutually understood method to revoke that consent despite being ball gagged

    • gabriellablows@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      3·
      13 days ago

      That’s a very valid point - it would be a little concerning if you got that far before you recognized it wasn’t your house 🤔

  • supercriticalcheese@lemmy.worldEnglish
    10·
    13 days ago

    Would ask you what you are doing in my bed. If it’s not my bed would excuse myself for entering the wrong room. Ohh wait too realistic 😅

  • HelixDab2@lemm.eeEnglish
    7·
    13 days ago

    Assuming consent on all fronts, and some kind of safe signal?

    Tickle.

    IME that ends up being strangely harder on a sub and something that can go on longer–with breaks!–than e.g. caning, flogs, etc. If you go too long with a silicone slapper, you can take skin off; to long/hard with a cane, and you’re causing hematomas. Too long tickling? No physical harm done (as long as they don’t, say, dislocate a shoulder; be careful with how you tie people up, folks!), although a sub might pee the bed, or be laughing so hard that they can’t breathe. That means that you can turn around and do it again the next day. Combine being restrained and blindfolded with sound-isolating earbuds so that a sub can’t tell where you are, and intersperse the tickling with sensual touch, and you can have a sub dreading your touch, flinching at nothing, and drag it out for an hour or more.

    I’d remove the gag though; tickling combined with a gag can obstruct breathing.

    (Not everyone is ticklish though. IME people that tend towards anxiety have a much stronger reaction to tickling.)

      • HelixDab2@lemm.eeEnglish
        2·
        13 days ago

        FWIW, feelings on tickling is very split; recipients seem to either love it or hate it, with no in between. Tickling, in a BDSM scene, is absolutely torture, and can be very triggering for some people. Some people can enjoy light tickling in a sensual/erotic manner, and still hate tickling as the primary form of sensation play in a scene.

        I am definitely on the sadistic end of that spectrum.

        If you try it, set up some kind non-verbal safe signal beforehand, because you may not be able to get words out.

  • StrangeBedfellow@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    2·
    11 days ago

    Your legs appear to be free, so ask for your consent (gag removed then replaced once the terms of our interaction have been agreed) to restrain them in a position of my choosing. Probably, somewhere up near your head, if you’re flexible enough, otherwise spread to expose your pussy and ass. Then a long session of teasing/edging with any suitable objects at my disposal. You should expect anal and vaginal penetration, and some form of impact play. The gag would probably be removed so that you can suck on my dick while I continue to play with your body.