• Num10ck@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    stop trying to find someone who likes what you like and hates what you hate. try to find someone who you enjoy anyway and treats you well.

    • disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world
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      5 days ago

      Sometimes it’s better to have different tastes. My ex and I liked the opposite flavors of gummy bears. It was so convenient. lol

    • Dran@lemmy.world
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      5 days ago

      I say this as someone who never stopped looking until I found a gaming buddy in a partner. When every night is a date, lan party, and sleepover all at once… I certainly can’t tell you what’s important to you, just never settle.

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      5 days ago

      100%

      It’s also nice to have shared interests. But I have friends to chat with about the latest Final Fantasy game.

    • ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de
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      4 days ago

      I feel like gaming is something you both want to have in common if either of you really enjoy it. Otherwise it seems like it usually turns into a problem.