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  • I’m an atheist with very bad PTSD from spending 6 months in ICU and having a near death experience while getting a double lung transplant. I dont necessarily struggle with depression the way you do but my PTSD tells me to isolate and I fell in deep. I ended up joining a universalist Unitarian church, again, I’m an atheist but UU isn’t about religion, its about community and service and everyone there is default nice and practices “radical hospitality” - it’s not necessarily a place to ask people out but just a way to dip your toes back into life safely, I think jumping to asking people out is probably part of the issue for you, that’s HUGE and small social steps are what’s needed.

    Joining a positive real life community has done wonders for my isolation and UU churches are global, it’s historical covenant is “Love is the spirit of this church, and service is its law. This is our great covenant: to dwell together in peace, to seek the truth in freedom, and to help one another.” might be worth looking into





  • Plants need direct light to grow… most need full sun. Personally all the solar farms I’ve seen just “grow” grass and everything is kept trimmed down to not cast shade on the panels. Putting the panels up higher would still cast any plants grown in deep shade. I think putting them in places deep shade is needed/wanted on the ground makes sense and because cities tend to be hotter due to paving using solar panels to cast shade would help lower the temps in cities, lowering power usage on things like AC. I think integrating solar into urban landscapes is the future







  • CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    This is what I always told my kids. Basically no job on earth gives a fuck about your highschool grades a lot don’t even care about your college grades, they only care if you got the degree so why worry about it? Apply yourself, get results that reflect personal growth and call it done. I’m not raising worker bees


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    This is why parents/society non stop deep throating the idea that grades are everything is so toxic. Being good at school doesn’t even automatically mean a person is intelligent just that they have the specific skills that specific school is looking for it’s not a reflection of their overall intellect.

    Don’t give grades, if the student has significant growth that’s all that matters, pass or not pass, at least in k - 12