Her most recent birthday (39), and she was terrified to turn around and have cameras see her real body. “There’s so many cameras, what do I do?!” She had no problem posting her edited pics online. Her chin/jawline here is also not what she portrays online. I think she’s since had jawline fillers (even though she denies any fillers, including lip) anyway. The point is she’s a con artist. She has people banned from Reddit for posting this. Even though it was all on public IG posts, she’s wild. Body confidence queen 😵‍💫

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    She shouldn’t be ashamed of her real body. She is beautiful. We are all beautiful. I’m actually so sad that a candid shot of her on someone else’s FB triggered ED for her years back. I’m upset that ED launched an obsession with seeing herself everywhere. I’m upset that my ED was triggered by following her way back after seeing her on a magazine in a doctors office (right I had just had a baby too). I’m upset that I continued to follow her as she got physically bigger (and looked healthier) but she still looked less “flawed” in all her images and I held myself to that standard. Luckily I am a very community involved person who focused on other actually important things and it stopped consuming me - but I’m the depths of ED it’s very hard to see clearly , and you feel like influencers are your “friends” cheering you on- they aren’t. They profit from self-doubt and self-loathing.

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        Thank YOU! Human rights organizations and protest/social justice communities are focused on actually uplifting others as we navigate difficult situations to help those affected by modern slavery, genocide and more. Looking to those role models helps a lot.

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          Finding something worthwhile where you can help your community and working to make change happen for others really makes you realize all the time people spend on the superficial isn’t time well-spent

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      Thank you for sharing. I find this relatable. ❤️ She has triggered mine a lot as well, but fortunately for me too I have been able to get to a place where it isn’t all consuming anymore. But still have my moments

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    Of all her videos and moments I truly believe this was her most embarrassing. For someone who films themselves every single day, I’ve never seen her so uncomfortable with cameras being on her. You would think that moment would’ve made her realize that maybe she should stop filtering so she isn’t so uncomfortable and terrified for her real self being filmed but nope she’s only gotten worse tbh.

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      She also had people banned from Reddit with false reports of sharing nudity with this same content

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        It makes it harder to feel sorry for her doesn’t it? I used to have quite a bit of empathy for her until she tried to bully Janette with that cease and desist letter. She’s a bitch.

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      She looks sooo uncomfortable here! I never saw this video before and honestly kinda shocked how awkward she is.

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    Rare, this is another perfect video and audio mashup. You can feel her discomfort in that birthday video when she can’t control the images.

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      Thank you. I do my best to document her actions and cultivate a conversation like this thread where people discuss how her deceptive, manipulative pattern of behavior harms or has harmed them. It’s important. I appreciate people being willing to share.

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        It always stuns me that she’s so shameless. Does she believe her lies and why has no one mentioned, in an interview, that she’s the one who’s talking about bodies and highlighting ‘flaws’ more than anyone else?

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    She looks so ridiculous acting that way while wearing an outfit from the “flashy and everyone will be looking at you” category.

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    So she actually had a real opportunity of proving her bopo stance, slap that fupa, shake her stomach and declare self love but she was ashamed??? Shocker 😂

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    Such a con. These are also not the little tiny skinny legs she has been showing everyone online. That video is so embarrassing for her. Everyone was getting annoyed with her. Always has to make a big spectacle!