Hi sissies! I’m a 31yo enby-presenting bi bottom in a town with no gay bars, nightclubs, BDSM events, or regularly-scheduled LGBT groups/meetings. It’s really churchy, but nobody has punched me in the face for crossdressing yet, so it’s tolerant enough by my standards.

In a place like this, how do you find cuties to do gay sex things with? I’m interested in master/slave dynamics, bondage, impact play, anal, cnc, pretty much anything. I just don’t like old bears. Which is a problem because the only bros who seem to be into me are in their 60s, and they don’t even try to look good, they’re pudgy slobs. How do you hack it out in the country?

  • lazyneet@programming.devOP
    5·
    8 days ago

    I’m not transfem, I just crossdress sometimes. And also, I would sooner date a transgirl than a cis girl any day of the week. I’m not straight, and what you’re saying only applies to straight people, and even then only the homophobic variety.

    • Black Skinned Jew@lemmynsfw.com
      3·
      8 days ago

      Ok, I’m confused… anyway… wish you the best I hope you find someone who match your taste… sorry but I am not too much into the LGBTQIA+ hype.

      • lazyneet@programming.devOP
        6·
        8 days ago

        May I ask, why are you posting on the sissies board if you have so much internalized homophobia to call LGBT stuff “hype”?

        • Black Skinned Jew@lemmynsfw.com
          2·
          8 days ago

          That’s a good question.

          I believe I subscribed this community cos I thought there was sexy trans women here but I was wrong

          TBH I didn’t feel like I’m homophobic, I believe trans women are women, but maybe you are right and sometimes I see trans women as cis women.