When I make people feel wrong I feel really really really really really bad and it sticks with me forever

    • leagman1@feddit.org
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      3 months ago

      That one is easy: Say thank you with a Mona Lisa-smile, then go on about your day.

      It’s a pure formalism, because any interpretation of what they said, how they said it, of your own thoughts or feelings on it, is 100% pure speculation. Thus you simply accept it formally with a mild smile and a “thank you” and leave everything else (thinking about it, discussing it, etc.) for a later time.

      It’s very similar to how you’re supposed to take/accept criticism.