• moss_icon [any, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    2 个月前

    Bigender and genderfluid people exist. I am AMAB, generally comfortable with being labelled a man but sometimes I identify and present myself as a woman, I even go by the name Alice on certain social medias. It is far from a black and white topic.

    Also possible she was just conflicted or just scared to make her gender public, given she mainly used the name Lilly and she/her pronouns on less public accounts.

    • LeeeroooyJeeenkiiins [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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      For some reason i feel like I shouldn’t portray myself as femme online but it isn’t really due to lack of comfort with that presentation and more that like, idk, it feels like I’d be stealing trans/genderqueer valor or something? Like i think it might be good for ‘op sec’ to use all them pronouns every now and then but it feels like id be doing something wrong