I dont like the text. Self control and love dont mix that well (for me). Also telling people they should not be polyamorous as if thats a choice for everybody is just not how that works for everybody.
Let me tell you, if you can’t exercise self-control, then there’s no way you should be polyamorous. All that lies down that path is pain, bad behavior, heartache, and disappointment.
All intimate relationships are about trust and respecting boundaries.
If you do not/can not/will not exercise self control and respect those boundaries, no relationship style will work for you.
Sounds like you want to do what ever you want, when ever you want. Nothing wrong with that.
There is a name for that: Being Single