Simple as that, I feel a contempt in my stomach whenever I see an able-bodied person having fun at the expense of their disabled peer. They play loud music even though they have invited their peer who they get overstimulated by loud noise, people choose wedding functions over the birthday lunch of a disabled friend who they know struggled to get out of the house, people choose gifts for everyone except the disabled friend because that friend can’t be an accessory for them, disabled people aren’t chosen for anything they can participate but in but always chosen for things they can’t so they decline and these people can have an excuse, even eating their meals they struggled to make or get. I don’t know what to do in all honesty