A mother telling her son that all men are evil is completely different.
Buddy, please, listen to me. This is a conversation happening in your head only. Listen to the words actually being said and not the ones you feel like you’re hearing.
the type of man that wouldn’t do these things is gonna feel attacked because they know they’d never do those things.
Can you explain how this knowledge is hurting anyone? To me, I mean: as a man, I need to know how I’m being attacked here.
all these posts and messages and shit aren’t helping,
The way that we prevent a majority of these rapes and accidental rapes from happening is overwhelming social pressure. It is very difficult to do something like this while people are watching.
You are actually working against the solution by being such a twit about the subject.
I say “accidental rapes,” by the way, because there are a lot of men out there who literally do not know they’re doing it because they have not been taught consent.
But I’m still lumped in because it’s “all men”.
As I say to all men I talk to about this, you are putting yourself in that category. I don’t know why. It seems kind of fucking stupid. Like as if you were arming a bear trap while standing in the center of it.
And don’t get on me for being mean to you, by the way, because as much sympathy as I have for you, and as much as I want you to finally get it and succeed, I find your attitude about this to be really fucking annoying. It’s tiresome talking to people like you about this.
Buddy, please, listen to me. This is a conversation happening in your head only. Listen to the words actually being said and not the ones you feel like you’re hearing.
Can you explain how this knowledge is hurting anyone? To me, I mean: as a man, I need to know how I’m being attacked here.
The way that we prevent a majority of these rapes and accidental rapes from happening is overwhelming social pressure. It is very difficult to do something like this while people are watching.
You are actually working against the solution by being such a twit about the subject.
I say “accidental rapes,” by the way, because there are a lot of men out there who literally do not know they’re doing it because they have not been taught consent.
As I say to all men I talk to about this, you are putting yourself in that category. I don’t know why. It seems kind of fucking stupid. Like as if you were arming a bear trap while standing in the center of it.
And don’t get on me for being mean to you, by the way, because as much sympathy as I have for you, and as much as I want you to finally get it and succeed, I find your attitude about this to be really fucking annoying. It’s tiresome talking to people like you about this.