• OopsOverbombing@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      Thank you. This is just a reaction shitty people can have regardless of gender. If their fragile ego can’t handle a rejection they go to anger and insults immediately. So bizarre.

    • ObjectivityIncarnate@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      Seriously, all the same ‘plays’ too:

      • lol rofl you think I was actually asking?
      • you’re ugly anyway
      • (if the rejection is based on you already being in a relationship) she’s ugly, you’ll never find someone as hot as me
      • (if you’re single) you’re gay/you’re a f*ggot
      • (slur related to your race, more common if the rejected is of a different race)
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        3 months ago

        Seems like you speak out of experience. Sorry for you. It’s sad that so many people forget how to treat each other respectfully.

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          3 months ago

          Mine and friends, yes. I appreciate the sympathy. I’m with the woman of my dreams now, though, so I’m optimistic I’ll never be exposed to it again. :)

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      3 months ago

      Oh no, emotions! I sure hope there aren’t some damning statistics about how many women die for saying no.