So we intend to do some biting of somecreature soon and we have been informed that this may not be an entirely safe thing to do due to risk of infection etc.

We want to bite enough to bruise but not enough to do serious injury or draw blood etc.

What are the best ways of achieving this safely?

  • pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 months ago

    Tbh I’d imagine the best way is to do it on yourself first to get it figured out. I’ve never heard of resources on sexually biting, though that doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t exist, just that the weird online lewd circles I have don’t overlap with that. If you wanted to try it without risk of injuring yourself either, I know pigs are generally used for human analogs in a bunch of experimental applications – maybe try getting some pork with the skin on from a butcher or something?

    Personally, I wouldn’t be comfortable biting someone that hard, it might take a surprising amount of force and this could just be a non-issue. It’s probably something you two will have to figure out when trying it, they might not be comfortable being bitten hard enough to bruise. It does sound hot, but I doubt I’d actually be able to handle being bitten that hard. Ofc I don’t know what you two are comfortable with, just thought I’d mention the possibility.

    I’ve assumed this is sexual, apologies if it isn’t, that’s just where my mind went. Not that it matters one way or the other.

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      2 months ago

      Thank you for your help and that’s a great idea. We have tried various kink things on ourselves before for story writing purposes, and just to see if we’d like them so this makes sense. Well, it’s not really going to be sexual, just kinky (kink isn’t inherently sexual). (Un)Fortunately we are vegan so the pork option is a no go, but good to know for friends who aren’t.

      Ah, well, we’re fairly new to a lot of things and we’ve done it in online roleplay so we thought to ourselves why not and the other creature has experience with it, so it seems safe to do, we will take it slow of course. Thanks for letting us know it would require some amount of force, we weren’t sure how much.

      It’s not going to be sexual, so yeah. But thanks for recognising your assumption!

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      2 months ago

      We have learnt from talking to the person we want to do with with that it is indeed a similar method to making a ‘hickey’ but whilst biting.

      Thank you for suggesting it, we will be safe with this.