• paysrenttobirds@sh.itjust.works
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    24 days ago

    I think that can be it for some but there is another type where you are able to jump through all the hoops and you enjoy jumping hoops and then suddenly people stop holding up hoops in front of you and you realize you never learned how to make hoops for yourself. Something like that.

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        24 days ago

        Or you’ve been jumping through only one type of hoop for 20 years without realizing that your parents’ trauma has you hooping in a circle.