Girls who’ve had difficulties getting/staying hard. What helped?

So I’ve been on estrogen for 3.5ish years, and projesterone for most of that. I’m about 2 years post orchi. I basically can’t top anymore, and I’ve got two partners that I would very much like to top.

I’ve tried Sildenafil Cialis in the past, which did basically nothing. Viagra had mixed results, but leaves a huge barrier to spontaneity. I’ve heard of some girls using topical testosterone creams or gels, but I’m a little afraid of getting other androgenic effects. Kegels haven’t done much good, but perhaps I just haven’t managed to do them consistently enough.

Have any of you had success with anything you’ve tried?

  • HEXN3T@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    13 days ago

    Hey! Not MTF (yet…? stuff’s wacky currently) but I do know of something that may prove to be useful.

    Might I suggest yohimbe bark? Avoid yohimbine supplements, but I make tea with 3-5g of ground, shredded bark. It works decently well, moreso than anything else I’ve tried. On top of that, it appears to be a vasodilator–it shouldn’t affect hormone levels long-term! It’s effective in all sexes, too.

    Effects (of tea) begin after thirty or so minutes, and this aligns with all accounts I’ve seen. It causes restlessness, so I’d avoid evening use… unless that’s your goal. Also, doing too much is fairly dangerous. It is preferred to stick to the lowest effective dose–though, I don’t seem to be dead. Interesting…

    Overdose isn’t fun. It’s easy to overdose on, yet hard when you actually follow instructions… like how I didn’t. Anyways.

    Mountain Rose sells 8oz. of bark for cheap, but took a little bit to ship. Nothing bad. The tea actually tastes decently pleasant–earthy, kind of sweet, a bit bitter, nothing overwhelming. Can’t go wrong with trying?

    I’ll answer any further questions to the best of my ability whenever I find the time. Also, random stranger on the internet, medical advice, all that. Do some of your own research–with the caveat that any site ridden with “ineffective” and “dangerous” for every single compound in existence is probably propaganda, and not worth considering. Hope I’ve been helpful! Wanted to provide an answer that nobody else would.

    Else? I agree with strap-on suggestions, though it’s got its downsides. Pretty much everything in this thread is sound advice!