GnomeGodsGnomeMasters [none/use name]

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  • Cismale here (feel free to tell me to gtfo) and I tend to agree with you insofar as many (most? All? Any?) cis allies haven’t done any sort of rigorous analysis on their own gender, socialization, and the massive privilege it begets.

    Before I continue: How do you see us being better allies and comrades? Truly asking.

    Personally I tend towards gender nihilism, but decades of having a penis and testicles, being socialized as, being perceived as, and ultimately “being” male (i.e. internalizing masculinity, patriarchy, binary gender, etc.) — especially at critical points in my biopsychosocial development — give me an unshakeable experience. No matter how much I choose to see beyond gender, to assert its lack of existence, whatever, I still inhabit a male body and feel at home in it and benefit from a society who privileges me as such. I am destined to fuck up, make mistakes, cause harm both implicitly and explicitly. Such is the burden of gender — and I have it the easiest.

    My point is that yes, you are right to be dubious of us, because even the most well meaning are socialized as gendered people, and benefit from the privilege of gender and it’s more work than 99% of us can ever be bothered to do (at least, at present) to actually be the allies y’all need. I wish that weren’t the case, and I hope that it isn’t, but goddam.

    I doubt that’s helpful at all. I dunno. I’m just ranting. Feel free to cuss me out if I’m making useless unproductive noise here.




















  • That style is a very weird mishmash of Western European/Mediterranean and like southern amerikkkan plantation owner and is very in vogue among certain sets of moneyed 20-30 somethings at present.

    That said, from everything I’ve read about the political inclinations of Gen Z and Alpha, it seems like they’re the most ideologically incoherent generation of Americans yet, which I can only assume is a mostly vibes based ideology based on whatever media diet their meager attention spans will allow them to consume.

    I’m also not trying to fan the flames of inter-generational conflict either; those younger people are just victims of an entirely different propaganda machine and media landscape than my generation and the generations before me. From actually interacting with that demo, it seems they’re largely pretty alright people who unfortunately have oatmeal brains thanks to modern tech, social media, and AI.