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Oh i just took the right hand person to be butch

What was the original post?

Believable. However there is a convincing case to be made that tea is demi

Dehydration is ace

And when I give thrwe short blasts, well… pensis

Yeah I suckle on yer pa’s nips – what of it?

merci

Hey baby, are you a werewolf? Because I want you to

#eat me

Edit: aw, # no make things big :(

It’s weird; there’s a huge trans presence on Tumblr, but also a large terf presence too. Part of the reason I like Lemmy/liked Reddit is that communities form that are supportive; I post to a group of people who have sought this space out, rather than to a group of individuals, some of whom might see it randomly and be rabidly unpleasant.

What are cathedrals but the lungs with which the masses breathe their opium?

(/s)

In fairness he probably wasn’t expecting to expose his arse tattoos

Depending on your interests, chess may appeal. There’s generally plenty of clubs around, and you have the social aspect of an activity with the learning curve of a hobby. Lots of clubs organise on Facebook. If you want to play rated games there’s generally a fee (to pay national dues), but if you’re happy just playing internally it’s usually free.

Feel free to ask if you’ve any questions about how it works/is set up near me.

Yeah, so make sure not to get caught

If you look at the light that’s been refracted through the bottle, it looks kinda like a cathedral.

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You are more than welcome, and I’m so glad that you and your boyfriend have found happiness and each other. To many more years of it!

This is it, I think: that when a straight person is in our space, it’s OUR space, and the rules and norms are in place for our safety and comfort.

Could and already does, which is depressing :(

To add, this is not a hypothetical; it has real world consequences. When I was at uni, there was a queer night at the college bar. One of the guys there went off at my friend because my friend was in a straight relationship and had turned up. My friend got upset and left. My friend is bisexual, and at the time wasn’t out and was taking baby steps into the queer scene.

If you heavily police who is and isn’t allowed at queer nights, you bar those that benefit from it most: those who aren’t already a part of a queer community, and looking to test the waters.

Not only that, but you end up making cishet passing queers feel unwelcome and uncomfortable. Questioning or early transition trans people already have vanishingly few spaces where they can feel welcome and, crucially, safe, without having to worry about whether they’ll have their validity picked at by the Gay Police TM. Aces also have their validity questioned a lot too, which is cringe.

Bottom line: don’t try to police who is and isn’t allowed in queer spaces.