

I’m late to this party, but I just wanted to say as a recently diagnosed 47 year old cis man, all of what you described applies to me as well. Well, except the illegal stuff, but do I ever feel that urge to just break shit. If I did, I would probably only be surprised because I’m in the midst of what I think is burnout. I have some trauma, but nothing compared to what some are dealing with. I never felt like I fit in, even with my own friends sometimes growing up. The people that have stuck it out with me are also ND in some way, but right now I am struggling. But these are some incredibly difficult times for people like us. I just wanted to send my love and let you know you aren’t alone.








I should have known if a guy like me talked to a girl like you, somebody would end up dead.