my new salary now is 2% less than my old salary. I don’t see your point.

career advancement was impossible under my old circumstances

it’s quite clear to me that me prioritizing my personal life over work made them insecure about themselves. Not listening to their forced, unasked and unwanted advice made them insecure about themselves. Working in a way that made sense to myself made them insecure about themselves.

When someone defies another person’s personal truth or reality, that has the potential to cause the other person to feel insecure about themselves.

With those people, I end up giving them short and vague responses until they leave me alone. They don’t deserve anything more.

holy shit, leaving was the correct decision. I always felt I didn’t fit in because they expected me to be one of them, always subordinate to them, a useful idiot who would only work as they wanted.

I’m also glad I left. godspeed!

what an interesting point of view. I like it.

Some people care more about money and titles than personal well being.

correct, ironically this applies to this community as well.

I see what you did there :D

management is sneaky, right? all my coworkers love drinking the koolaid.

Everyone wins!

no, I’m afraid you don’t understand. Yours is what a rational solution looks like, the ones in charge of the unit don’t want this, they want to control at what time I enter the unit.

If you have 2 older coworkers on a power trip looking for any excuse to explode on you for any perceived slight they are going to use this as ammunition.

It’s though a superb idea and I’ll be using my phone to record those first minutes and be ready to be ridiculed for it.

I need to quit.

somebody who gets it…

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work is important to me because I like having a roof, food and healthcare. I don’t have the luxury of not having to work.

Are you saying that work is a place to dump your issues or what you did on the weekend to the point of not doing your job? This is something I find very odd. I don’t want to work with people with this mindset.

Are you advising me to ignore patients when they call? cause that’s what they do and if a job is simply inconsequential, why bother?

Are you also advising me to listen to them when they rant against greens (an ecologist party in Germany) or migrants? It’s tiring and closeted racist.

I don’t see how my work ethic is the wrong one, or how yours would be better. Better if I want to become a careerist? absolutely. Better if I want to feel good with myself? absolutely not.

wie würdest du den Brief / Email für meinen Vorgesetzte formulieren?

Du bewirbst dich intern und all deine Arbeitserfahrung ist in diesem Krankenhaus?

richtig gelesen

Da sind Arbeitszeugnisse nicht wirklich üblich, man kennt sich ja.

Dann verstehe ich diese Abteilung nicht…

ich wollte meine Bewerbung nicht unter die große Glocke hängen und war bisher diskret. Wenn ich zur Leitung gehe zum sagen, dass ich ein Arbeitszeugnis brauche, wird es kein Geheimnis mehr sein.

Wo ich herkomme gibt es keine Arbeitszeugnisse, wo ich herkomme, Leiter, die sich beleidigt fühlen, sabotieren den Arbeitnehmer, der woanders arbeiten geht (den neuen Chef anrufen und über den Kanditat schleht reden).

Und dann gibt es die Arbeitskollegen, die versuchen dich und manipulieren, da sie dir so sehr geholfen haben und nun geht’s du weg…

Ich verstehe Deutschland nicht.

kompletten Identitaet zu erheben, ich=vielschichtige, ozeanische Seele

lolwut? Beruhige dich

wieso so viel Aggressivität gegen Introvertierten?

Du hast komische Ideen über Menschen, die nicht viel reden und es ist klar, du hast nur den Titel des Posts gelesen hast und nicht den Inhalt. Ich würde dich bitten, selbst zu reflektieren und viel weniger anzunehmen, bevor du tiradierst.

Siehst du wirklich nicht, dass dein zweiter Absatz dem widerspricht, was du im ersten geschrieben hast?

Warum glaubst du, dass alle Introvertierte gleich sind?

am Main