Stuff like this disappointing. It is frustrating to feel that how I was born makes me something to be feared.
Are we better to live in a society where women fear all men? Is it even possible to change society in a way where even some men are considered “safe”?














I don’t feel like we make it better by also trying to fear women. I also don’t want to make it so folks are just giving up on vigilance because everyone is bad.
Some people have a very good sense of when people or situations are dangerous and other folks do not have that. I think what I’d ideally want is to help figure out how to identify that and maybe even improve it for folks in safe and healthy ways?