I think its a frank discussion that would need to be had between you and your partner, sexual frustration is definitely, well, frustrating and can lead to resentment and other negative emotions that no one wants in a relationship. And while it may not be fair to you that you have a high sex drive and you just have to sit there with this person are attracted to and love, its also not fair to pressure them into sex when they dont want it.

Ultimately, it comes down to whether being with that person is worth the lack of sex. Its a hard question to ask yourself but if sex is an important part of the relationship to you, then as much as you love a person they might not be the best partner for you

Im a man and Id say missionary is my favorite. I love looking my wife in the eyes (and the boobs), plus the combo of penis inside her and a hand rubbing her clit to be a guaranteed way to fast track her to orgasm, and missionary is the easiest way for me to do that.

Like a lot of the other women here, her favorite position is doggystyle, and Ill never complain about getting to watch her ass bouncing against me

Its a very popular toy but my wife and I both get a LOT of enjoyment from our magic wand

Im glad that it was ultimately a fun time even despite the blood!

Yeah I agree that the first time was probably the worst that its been

My first time was in college, with the woman who is now my wife! The first time we fooled around was shortly after we met, we were back in my apartment and she offered me a blowjob which I happily accepted. While it felt really good at first, I started feeling some pain after a few minutes. Turns out that, through a combination of my foreskin not being able to fully stretch around my head at the time, and it being her first time around a penis with a foreskin, mine had torn just a little bit. While it was nothing severe medically, it was definitely enough to keep me from cumming. I offered to go down on her, but that was the end of that hookup.

Our first time having PiV sex was about a month later, my roommates and I put on a little thanksgiving dinner that I had invited her to. We were planning on going to a show on campus after dinner, and so I walked with her back to her apartment for her to grab something before we went to the show. We got to her room, and she just looked at me and said “want to have sex?”. Of course the answer was a resounding yes. It was definitely a little awkward to figure out positioning but we settled into missionary, and I just told her I’ll take it slow and she could tell me if she wanted a change in speed or anything. After a few minutes she said that it was getting uncomfortable so we called it there with neither of us finishing, but both of us excited to keep practicing at a later time.