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  • Listen to your you.

    I went NC with my father when I was 13. About 10 years later we were in the same hospital room as his mom was getting ready to die. Then again a year later when his dad was, I asked the hospice nurse to remove him for my visit.

    About 10 years after that I got a call from my step sis that my father was dying and likely wouldn’t make it past a couple of days, that now was the time to come make amends.

    I am so damn thankfull for that call. I still relish that I had the opportunity to actively say “No.” Fuck that guy, worst human I’ve ever met. My life has been awesome without him.










  • troglodytis@lemmy.worldtoGet Better@lemmy.worldpeople pleasing
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    18 days ago

    I absolutely love me. I’m fucking fabulous. I understand the people around me do not. So I don’t be my me around… Well . Anyone these days. I have no desire to deal with their shit. So I’m just me to myself.

    Sure, it’d be great if it were different, but it’s not gonna be for another year or two. But I’m still fabulous