For me it’s foot fetish stuff. Every damned thing else is on the table but before I could make the lethal mistake of talking about it, she expressed her giga-ick about the issue. To this day I thank God I saw the metaphorical fly hit that electric fence before I walked into it.

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    When I’m in a relationship, usually I can figure out if they would, would consider, or would be against stuff that I may like/want and that determines whether or not I bring it up.

    If it’s not a critical desire than I don’t mind just going without. There’s nothing I would really consider “out there” that I find a critical need for with that stuff anyway. It’s usually just a bonus if they also enjoy the same things I do.

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    I think she might have a foot fetish, she has given me foot jobs before but honestly I’m just not into feet. She has also expressed wanting to sell feet pics after hearing how much some women make. I don’t have a foot fetish so I don’t know what dudes like but she has tan, size 9 feet that are very thin. She also has pretty big hands for her size I call them “alien hands” jokingly and has joked how I have a tiny little cock relative to the size of her hands, I think she knows I like being demeaned a little, it’s a huge turn on.

    I’ve talked to her about how my fetish is women with super muscular legs that I just want to eat out while they are wrapped around my head. Like big, bulging, bodybuilder level legs. She said she thinks muscles that big are gross and I understand how it’s a fetish and not viewed as “normal”. Also, I like wearing thongs but that’s part comfort and functionality and part a fetish, she sees me wearing thongs from MeUndies, but I also had an ex that had me wear her Victoria’s Secret g strings and panties and by god they were so silky smooth and comfy.

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        6 months ago

        Right, and that couldn’t have anything to do with separation being a healthy response to relationships when they stop working out; much better to keep it a social taboo equivalent to adultery in the eyes of the church & state.

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      6 months ago

      You sure op is even straight? The sub is ask men, not men ask