• Timecircleline@sh.itjust.works
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      8 months ago

      Child support isn’t meant to punish a parent that’s no longer in the child’s life. Even if thats the end result, it’s meant to support the child.

      Because of the bodily autonomy argument there won’t be true equality surrounding pregnancy because nobody has (or should have) weight of decision of whether to carry the child except for the person who does so.

      But if a child is brought into the world as a result, it needs to be supported. And that’s the responsibility of the parents- willing or not.

      I think that if male birth control becomes safe and available it will be much closer to equality.

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      8 months ago

      Your logic is fundamentally flawed. In several ways. I see several people arguing with you ineffectively because they assume you are arguing in good faith or have a coherent position… Neither of which I am convinced you possess.

      In the US (and most of the world) it is a fundamental right of bodily autonomy that any individual is not subjected to any forced medical situation in the support of another person’s life, regardless of that person’s age, gender or relationship with the other person. Even if we agreed on when personhood happens (I assume we disagree on it) at no point must one person give up their bodily rights for another. If you provide a special case for pregnancy then we are in a discussion of if your inconsistent belief structure is valid.

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        Your logic is fundamentally flawed. In several ways. I see several people arguing with you ineffectively because they assume you are arguing in good faith or have a coherent position…

        You’re free to disagree with me, but everything I say on here is in good faith.

        In the US (and most of the world) it is a fundamental right of bodily autonomy that any individual is not subjected to any forced medical situation in the support of another person’s life, regardless of that person’s age, gender or relationship with the other person.

        Yep, I agree.

        Even if we agreed on when personhood happens (I assume we disagree on it) at no point must one person give up their bodily rights for another.

        I have no strong opinion on when personhood happens, I simply don’t know.

        If you provide a special case for pregnancy then we are in a discussion of if your inconsistent belief structure is valid.

        A special case for what? You never expressed your disagreement with me.

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      8 months ago

      No, it should not. When two consenting adults have sex without protection, the resulting pregnancy shouldn’t be the sole problem of the woman.

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        8 months ago

        She is the only one granted the choice to end the responsibility. The father is left with massive financial responsibility for 18 years, that the mother had the choice to prevent. This even occurs in cases of rape.